Reflection - An essence

Have you ever experienced a feeling of missing something but not sure of what it is? Well, until today, I don't think, this thought has ever crossed my mind.  But suddenly, approaching my last few days of MBA life, I have this feeling in me today. Ah, before you guys imagine something wild, I shall brief my point.

I was writing my final MBA report today and suddenly felt that, though the report appeared fine and focussed on the topic, but there was something missing in it. I read other reports, journals and books, but still couldn't figure out the solution to this puzzle.

Then, I realize! Many a times, we don't spend time on reviewing and analysing a work on its completion; may be reading, listening, cooking, writing, playing etc.. We merely follow our intuition or logic and structure to complete a work. Instead, we need to spend time on review and reflection. Throughout my MBA, there was a lot of importance given for reflection,  but I didn't realize then! Today, when I look back and analyse the missing part of the puzzle, I see, the role of reflection and criticism on original work.

Many of us would not like somebody else reviewing or critiquing our work. But sit back and think why! Answering this question of why, will solve many confusions.  We are afraid that somebody else will influence our work, criticize our work, dominate our work and what now!  However, what about the positive benefits of review? You will have diversified perspective and time to reflect and act on. These factors will facilitate you in your upcoming projects/work. By reflecting on one's own work, he/she will observe, act, question and correct his own work.

Therefore, give a thought for this idea of reflection as an essence in everyday's work and enjoy the benefit of change and reflection!

"Einstein's Lessons of Life"

I have always been wondering on Einstein's Lessons of  Life. One of his life lessons everytime keeps me haunting, which says "Time Flies When You Are Having Fun". Honestly, I didn't give this much a thought as I believed that time flies all the time, no matter what happens. But gradually started realising how true was Einstein!

Let us all take a moment and recollect your memories. What do you see? Which moments do you recollect? I bet, we will be able to refresh our memories with only Happy or Sad moments of your life. Here you go! Why do you think this happens? There may be many events in our lives, but our mind just records and treasures either our best or worst events, because those are the times when we either have fun or break down.

Sub-consciously, our mind records these events and saves it for our future memories. I go back when I was in India and working (2010). I had been passionate in pursuing my MBA for 3 years. Finally, I thought to myself, this was the time and decided to move on. Now, after completing my 2 semesters at Strathclyde, I just cannot believe that it has been 9 months since I started my course.  Now, I talk to myself analysing how did those 9 months flew? Here I find, Einstein's Life lesson of  'Time Flies When You Have Fun'. Eventhough, the entire 9 months was like a rock and space journey, I guess these are one of the best cherishable moments of my life!

As I always say, "Don't brood over your past and live the present", so does Einstein, Live your life the best way you can and cherish every moment of life! Hard and Easy times are part of life, but remember time flies when you have fun. So don't lose your time to spread happiness and joy everyday, because "Everyday is a new day"!

Pain of Isolation

Not everyone in life achieves and gets everything that they want. Life is all about maintaining a balance between happiness and isolation. Sometimes, when I am in solitude, I talk to myself and try to understand how difficult life is to live the way you want:( There is desparation and desire that craves to be satisfied all the time. Is this possible, I ask myself. The pain of isolation or loneliness is just unimaginable. How does it feel when you are away from your family? How does it feel when you see an abandoned baby on the road? What about the pain of losing someone you love? What about the fear of death? Are there any answers to these?

Well, to be honest, I dont think anyone in this world would have answers for these questions. But just think once to yourself on why these happens. It is sometimes the pain that doesn't have an answer. It is so deep that it would pour tears out and even melt the ocean. It is like being pierced with iron rods one by one all over the body. Just the pain remains. There is no rescue and fear prevails. The emotion just pricks your heart with thorns. The pain sometimes kills your emotion, sense of belonging, purpose of life and ultimately forces you to end your life.

Only cure, is to spread love and affection as long as we live. What would you lose by sharing love? What would you lose by giving happiness? I say, you will get back twice the amount of love and happiness that you share.
Start living your days as though today is the last day of your life. Now, see what difference you would make both to yourself and to people around you. World is small and life is short, so just follow your destinty and live your life the best way you can! Isolation becomes invisible.

Power of Blogging:)

Now I realise why people start blogging more when they do their MBA:):)

The pressure their studies does to them is just unimaginable. Atleast to me, I feel it is a great deal of studies after my 3.5 years of work. I feel, I am getting back to my school days may be my XII grade where I had to really slog for my marks. Though some may argue that the course is not that competitive, I personally feel that it needs a lot of energy and hard work. I feel my appetite is literally triple than what it was before. Why am I hungry and hog like a pig? Staring at my PC, I was just thinking why this stress and what can I do to avoid this? Then I realised why one of my friend was writing more blogs. I realised what my blog could do to me. I understood why people start writing blogs during their MBA. The Ugly truth is that "Blog" not only relaxes me but also motivates me and energizes me back. It gives me the whole energy and a more holistic view of thinking. It improves my thought process and concentration. "Blogging" is just an amazing tool.


I kept thinking and starting at the Marketing book for hours together. After ceratin point of time, I felt I wasn't any productive at all. Now, I looked at my blog that wasn't updated for aroung 2 months. I kept thinking why? Why did I do injustice to my blog? Then, I thought to myself that I would definitely keep writing atleast once a week and keep me rejuvenated and fresh! This is the power of "Blogging". So, bloggers, keep blogging and cherish your present moments! Now, heading back to target Marketing:)

Nature -- Truly God's gift!

Hey All... I am back yet again with another episode.. Well this time it would be nature at its best!! What else do you need when you feel lonely or aloof?? Anybody else on a second thought?? Well for me it's a definite NO NO.. The one which gives you the best feeling or soothes you and comforts you is "Nature". This is truly GOD'S GIFT!!

I have had thoughts on writing about Nature sometime back. But didn't find the perfect blend to write about it until I enjoyed Norway!! It was amazing, splendid, marvellous and what not adjective do I use?? Not just to say but you need to feel the same. I felt it!! Nature for its Huge Mountains, Trees, Rivers and Waterfalls is just a blessing to watch! Trust me, Norway is just outstanding for this! Though I missed the "Midnight Sun" view at Norway, there was nothing to regret when i saw the Fjords (Feeyords -- mountains cut through glaciers) just awe to look.. They were huge and gigantic reminding me of the King Kong movie!!! Sometimes I even imagined the Gorillas of King Kong frightening me amidst the Fjords there!!!

I had spent 3 days in Norway and all the three days were different! Those days just made me feel that Nature and I are friends and companions! It mad me so comfortable to relax and ooze out my tensions only to enjoy and replenish myself along with the cool winds and breeze!!! The sunny days and windy nights change anybody's mood to just feel pleasant and go with the wind!! Everyone must experience this feeling atleast once in their lifetime! I would still say this is not done for me... still more and more pending in the stock!! Got to wait for more exploration!!


So, be there and enjoy the Nature around you to the fullest without any stoppages!!! No bother what happens and who is with you, but this man's best friend Nature is always there for you!

Sunk In Despair :( :(

Hey guys!!

I now realise that there are not always good moments.. Life does have ups and downs --good and bad.. Live angel and Devils.. Thats the one I am facing today at this minute.. Thought or probably had a small instinct that in my life things are going to be perfect with all great things and all success but dont understand how this feeling of depression sank in..

Well thts because of this crazy and unbearable society and its rules.. Its so nasty at times getting on nerves with all silly comparisons and sophiscated caste system I guess the root cause of this issue is caste system and ancestors rules...Can't say it is wrong but it isn't right also.. .. Because nobody gives importance to feelings and passion.. They say when something is minus and when there is a probability then there the equation equals to zero :(:( What sort of equation comparison is going on here? Its life man!! Dude everybody has to come out of this thought and start a new life!!

I hope things change soon and people start realising there is something more than just this casts and society with its rules ruling over people and their moral problems!! Shall definitely try to work something from my end!! Pls u guys too contribute as much as u can!!! Whatever means it may be but we must fight against this odd society and try to achieve our goals!! I know i am sounding a little philosophical and a little doomed today and will fight against this odd and raise again!!

Following Serial (Sindhu Bhairavi -- Uttrayan) :)

Hi Guys,

I know now whats running in all your minds about me following serails like old aunties:):) But sometimes it happens to end that some serails leave a big image and feel within U :):) That is what this serial did to me:)

Personally, as other serials here also there is a hero, heroine, villian and people around them chit chatting.. But that Sindhu and Veer
made a cute pair.. But i hated that Tapu (Bhairavi) oops what a lady.. All she does in the name of friendship which, makes me feel even worser!! How can a person cant recognize between a true friend and a foe acting as a friend!! Pity this Sindhu (Ichacha)

Well that how the story has to drag on u c!!! All that starts well also ends well.. But over here i dunno whats gonna happen... Will
Ichahcha end with Veer?? Pity her amn.. Bad life.. What all games this Tapu plays.. Hmm but great if u follow on!! Dont worry if not i shall keep posting stuffs about this!!

Well, a major shift is yet to happen.. What i heard is that this Sindhu is gonna get married to Veer's brother (Another foul play with her)..
This time all of them included in this play (Veer's parents, Nani and Bhairavi) Bt this Sindhu is also silly wont she realize this?? Ok no tension! Lets wait to see whats gonna happen!!

Back again with New Avatar!!

Hey all, I know its been a long indeed a very long break between me and my blog.. Dont ask me y cos even i am trying to find the same reason!!

Nways all tht happens, happens for some reasons!! Now, I am back over here again but with some confusion in life.. Never has life given me this choice... Ask me what?? A choice to choose between no options left out!! A choice to make where there are no big roads ahead me in life!! A choice to pick from all equally difficult paths... What do i do now?? Really confused..

This is when i felt, I need to start blogging again!! Cos at least then i will be able to pour out my feelings and frustatios at least! The least thing that i could do for myself!!

What do u do in this situation? When life asks u to take a decision in a 3 divering routes? All three would lead u to diff paths and there by diff career tooo.. May b a road that u take wold change ur lifestyle... Hmmm, as Saints say in this case, i think take time try analysing all possibilities inch by inch.. then nobody knows the future cant even try predicting the future!!

Finally, take a path and see how best u can go ahead in that path and what best u can do in thagt path to make the path even better for upcoming generations and then see what beholds there for u !!! A new saying may b all thts starts new also ends well and flourishing!!

So, No worries... Guess, I might also b taking a few important decisions in a few days time.. will keep you al updated!!! Tc folks!

Enjoy the Present!

Quite a lot of times I see people thinking about the past or the future and not living the present!! Why is this?? Have we thought about this? Please do think?? Just close your eyes for 2 mins and see what you visualise? Some must be brooding over the past, a few grumbling about the future and a few nostalgic about the past incidents.. But why is that we all dont think about the present and enjoy this moment this minute of our life?

Its high time that we all forget the past and cease worrying about the future and start living the present! I know it sounds philosophical just good to advice but trust me its true!! Even i am among u the same women who thinks about my past and worrys about future!! But one day I realised that there is something that i was missing and it is the present enjoyment!

I do understand all of us have problems in life!! Life is a puzzle where evry problem has a unique solution! So even if there is aproblem then there is definite solotion to it!! Remember thats why i called it a puzzle and not a zigsaw puzzle with no solution! Just live the way you are and see how beautiful the world is!! There is loads in this earth of ours to enjoy if we open our eyes in a wider perspective! So start cherishing your moments from now on!! Enjoy ur life cos its your life!

Feel the Joy!

Hey guys..

There are loads in life which we all are missing.. We feel working then some browsing and doing some personal stuff is all what is there in life to enjoy! but i bet you all that there is so much more than that what we can do with this life of ours which god has given to us as a boon.. indeed it is really a boon for all of us.. So lets not waste anymore time and kick start living our life the best way we can!

K dont worry i shall start off with this! For an example I know all of us are pressurised due to work some of us due to our PL's some due to onsite and so on.. But believe me we can come out of this stress very easily...

Remember the secret mantra of all is Happiness and smile! If both are there around u then everything is fine and believe me we can create this not anyone else.. One secret mantra is that work alone is not life there is hell a lot of things outside.. Come outside and face the world of ours!

I am starting a Sports Club along with some volunteers here in RTSC (TCS Karapakkam) anyone interested can join us here.. This will not only relieve stress out of u but wil also give u all a confidence and determination in life! Sports can do a lot more in everyone's life!

Also there are Music clubs, Toastmasters and a lot more here at TCS.. So come in and relish urself instead of just sitting at office and doing the same bugging stuff again and again!

Want a change in Life!!

Well here i am the usual desi girl in this chennai city.. leave to office then slog then bak home dine and sleep! well sometimes feel it is so irritatin.. wat a monotonous life is this?? wanna change something in this lifestyle..

I am wondering now if someone can patner me wanna do something diff come away from this IT field.. wanna do something interesting like Radio Jokeying and Anchoring for a few shows!! that will b interesting feel will b relaxed cos like the way i wanna b!!

Lets try!! guys around just let me know if anyone will be able to find this job for me?? well i love journalism so will be definitely looking forward for that!!!

Gud luck guys hope u find something gud for me!!!

Aha here comes the routine.. time up gotto go for work!! cya!!

Beautiful Picture!!

Hey guys!!

Believe me this painting is awesome.... it is a gem stone painting.. paintaing made of diff gem stones.. its truely amazing.. hmm iknw all ofu must b eager to take a look let me show that to u... u guys wil love it..
here it goes..



Hmm so hw did u guys like it? gud one na.. truely awesome.. infact i also didnt belive that it was made of gem stone bt then my office colleagues had bought it from spencer's for onsite Christmas gifts just took one among them..

knw wat somethings in life truely amuses us.. this is one of them.. i had admired this picture for alomose the entire day.. tried if i could do something like tht? not sure if i can. bt then got anther answer.. with true determination anything is possible in this world.. this earth has a lot of beautifu; things.. it is our responsibilty as human's to bring out the hidden talents and excel in wat ever we do!!

So wat have u al decided? as i tel u everytime... hope for the best and give in ur best.. rest god wil handle!!!

Live present!!

What a Weather?? Oh my god awesome man!!

Gloomy day.. Our Sun god is not shining at all.. Can you imagine this in chennai?? Chennai?? Yeah you guys are hearing that right.. It is chennai experiencing this Climate.. Beautiful day.. and I am listsning to the most beautiful song "Tuhi Meri shab hai"... waiting for someone who would tell that to me.. yeah it wil happen someday.. not in a hurry.. let it take its own time...

But then again me in office.. it is a sunday.. yeah i understand bt then me working for a support project so gotto work.. worst part is the travel that s what i had been thinking untill today.. but today i felt something really gud about the travel.. indeed i loved it.. morning travel when the sun wasnt that bright.. when the clouds filled the sky.. chilling breeze blew all over my face.. me sitting near the window and gaping at the sky listening to "Nejukul Peidudum ma mazhi" from "Vaaranam ayirum" one of my fav... just luv that song.. then i felt something gud about the travel.. tht moment i didnt want my travel to end..

So lets all enjoy every moment of life not grumbling abt the past.. lets live the past and relish every moment of it...

Staring at my PC..

hey guys!!
Today is Saturday and knw wat me at office.. staring at my PC.. just staring!! nothing else.. cos not much work here.. bt still will have to support.. kya zindigi hai yar.. wanna enjoy this day this weather with someone specail.. bt then yet to find one.. atleast of my choice.. hmm difficult one.. bt then aab kya jaldi hai aaur time hai.. meant ipo yenna avasaram nariya time iruku.. wel still have loads in life.. knw wat me gonna go home now taking the laptop along with me bt not informing pple over here.. ha ha some thrill.. lets c hope i dont get into trouble..

wat abt all of u? what do u do during weekend?? how many of us try to enjoy those days?? wel hardky a few.. bt guys come on wake up.. lets all do some adventerous stuff.. lets all start leading life giving it a new angle.. a new face.. so wake up.. live life ur best!! just dont stare and give a bizzare look!!

thts it for now!! keep blogging!